You say you want real love.
You dream about being met. Chosen.
Held by someone who actually shows up.
But… when love does show up?
You flinch.
You overanalyze.
You push it away or overfunction to keep it.
It’s not because you’re broken.
It’s because your nervous system is still calling chaos “chemistry.”
Still confusing inconsistency with intimacy.
Still stuck in the loop of trying to earn what should be received.
And that’s what I’m breaking down in this week’s new YouTube video:
🎥 Are You Emotionally Available for Love?
Because babe, if love keeps feeling like a riddle you can’t solve—this might be why.
This video is for you if…
- You’ve done the therapy, the somatics, the self-help books… but love still feels confusing
- You attract emotionally unavailable partners even though you know your worth
- You’re tired of chasing the spark that leaves you burnt out
- You’re craving the kind of love that feels like rest—but your body doesn’t trust it yet
💥 What You’ll Learn Inside:
- What emotional availability actually looks like in real time
- How your nervous system might be blocking love (even if your mindset’s on board)
- Why performing in relationships feels easier than receiving
- 3 questions to ask yourself to check your true capacity for connection
- How to stop fixing yourself and start creating safety instead
📓 How to Use This Video:
- Watch with a journal and a brutally honest heart
- Pause when something lands. That’s the truth your body’s been waiting for
- Reflect on what safe love actually feels like for you—not the fantasy, the felt sense
- DM it to the friend who says “I’m fine” while chasing men who aren’t
- Bookmark it for the next time you want to text someone who’s already shown you who they are
💎 My Favorite Reframe from the Video:
“You’re not hard to love. You just never felt safe receiving it.”
Let that one hit.
And then let it rewrite the story your body’s been living.
🎥 Watch the Full Video Now:
Are you REALLY ready for love?
Many high-achieving women think they’re just “bad at love” or need to try harder—but that’s not the case.
Take this quick quiz to find out if your nervous system is ready for dating… or if it’s about to attract the same relationship in a different outfit.
