The Hopeless Romantic

How is this showing up in your

romantic relationship?

It is extremely common that people who get CINDERELLA have
these 3 things happening in their relationship:

This is just the tip of the pumpkin carriage!

Ready to get a pair of glass slippers?

The Outcast

As far back as you can remember, you've felt like an outcast.

You couldn't put your finger on it... but this feeling that something was wrong with
you loomed over your head like a small snow cloud.

In order to feel accepted and fit in you masked your uniqueness,
like Elsa's gloves hiding her ice powers. 

However, the anger built up, and everyone always seemed to disappoint you. 

Who needs them anyway, right?

As a child, your mother said your emotions were TOO MUCH, or you were TOO DRAMATIC.

When you had big feelings, you were told to "go to your room" or "stop crying, or I'll give you something to cry about" 
Feelings of everyone being out to get you created hypervigilance. 

Easily held back by your own negative self-talk or what your mother liked to call "tough love"
creates paralyzing perfectionism in many projects you would like to begin. 

You CAN manifest a magnetic relationship with someone who supports, loves, listens, and sees you for you. 

Your Own Personal Olaf!  

How is this showing up in your

romantic relationship?

It is extremely common that people who get ELSA to have
these 3 things happening in their relationship:

This is just the tip of the Ice Mountain!

Ready to get the whole kingdom?

The People Pleaser

Longing to be part of their world?

As a child, your mother was great. No complaints. At least that you can think of...
for some reason, you can't remember much of your childhood.
There was always this looming feeling of not belonging. 

Your basic needs of food, shelter, and water were met,
but your emotional needs went under the sea.  

You became very attuned to others' feelings & may even seem like you can read their thoughts. This was a coping skill created in your childhood to make sure you could create safety for yourself by knowing when something was off with your mother. 

Your emotionally unavailable mother always seemed overwhelmed,
so you made it your mission to make her proud!

Quickly learning to morph into someone else to avoid triggering her and getting punished. Being seen as "such a good child" Now not knowing where your mother ends and you begin, all the while losing your voice.  

Holding back your thoughts, opinions, and needs in order for others to feel good. 

Feelings of exhaustion, imposter syndrome, and immense anger rippling under your skin, because they never see what you have done for them.

You have a knack for being the lighthouse for finding romantic partners
who need saving from the depths of their own ocean.

How is this showing up in your

romantic relationship?

It is extremely common that people who get ARIEL  to have
these 3 things happening in their relationship:

This is just the tip of the Trident!

Ready for the whole shaft?   

The Runaway

As far back as you can remember, your life has been planned out.
Not aware of life beyond the palace walls...

Everything is carefully crafted, planned, and ready for you to become
the perfect princess that your mother always wanted you to be.
But deep down, you felt off.

You wanted more!

You followed her every move, picking up on all her words, her thoughts, and beliefs.
Listening to her wisdom on how to run the palace someday.

Yet, something happened.

You were introduced to something (someone) that blew your mind, a rude awakening!

Your perfect life shattered, and you were shown a whole new world!  

Anger. Irritability. Panic. Helplessness

These feelings bubble up. How could Mother lie to you? 

This world is nothing like the carefully crafted, perfect
one you have been living in. Can this be real?

Poverty. Crime. Lies. Corruption.

Is there anyone that you can trust? 

Wishing you could go back to avoiding it all. You create coping
mechanisms to live in your fantasy realm.

Doom Scrolling

Jealousy

Judgment

Gossip

Binge Eating

Intimacy/Romantic Relationships

Addictions to Drugs/Alcohol

All to help you avoid facing reality, and your greatness. 

If they don't know you are a princess, they won't ask you for help, right?

You believe you need to play small and hide your true identity to survive.

How is this showing up in your
romantic relationship?

It is extremely common that people who get JASMINE to have
these 3 things happening in their relationship:

This is just the rubbing of the magic lamp!

Ready to get the whole genie?